Control Your Anger and Be Well Again

Jeremy Mailman By Jeremy Mailman, 10th Mar 2011 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/1aca1qpb/
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Getting angry is a normal part of being human but uncontrolled anger can destroy ourselves and others. Anger can be used constructively but can also be a destructive human emotion – internally and externally. It may come unexpectedly and controls you in an instant without you knowing it. Early signs of anger are irritation, disappointment or depression. Here are some ways to handle anger and keep our sanity.

Listen and anayze

Listen

Bear in mind that nothing will be resolved if both sides are not listening. No one changes his mind in an exchange of angry words.

Analyze

Figure out why you think the person acted badly, unreasonably or childish. Maybe the person has a good reason for behaving that look irrational and worse to you. Try to determine the person’s reason.

Be calm

Control your emotion

Do not let yourself be controlled by the person’s anger. Only you are in control of your emotions. Do not let others control you.

Remain calm

By remaining calm and in control, you will surely be more reasonable and rational in your thinking. Anger will only prevent you from seeing the best options advantageous to you.

Count to 10

When you are upset, take a deep breath and try counting to 10.

Let your anger out

Do worthwhile activities

Let your anger out by doing some exercises, household chores or sporting activities. Mow the yard, clean the house, ride a bike, play basketball, etc.

Respond, don’t react

Respond to people. Use your brain and not your stomach.

Prevent it

Avoid people that upsets you

Keep away from the person or persons that make you angry. Avoid especially those people who seem bent on really making you angry all the time.

Deny access

Do not allow the person that makes you angry access to you. Give the person the penalty of rejection. He or she deserves it.

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Anger, Anger Management, Angry, Control Anger, Handle Anger

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author avatar Dafeenah
10th Mar 2011 (#)

Very great tips and suggestions. Thanks for sharing.

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author avatar tootsieharveynovels
10th Mar 2011 (#)

Very good tips...shared with facebook and twitter.

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author avatar Jeremy Mailman
10th Mar 2011 (#)

Thanks for the comments. Thanks, DSF for sharing.

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author avatar Carol
10th Mar 2011 (#)

Some very good ideas there Jeremy.

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author avatar Rathnashikamani
11th Mar 2011 (#)

Mailman,
I agree.
Getting angry is normal, but to be normal again, one must forget those angry moments!

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