I Don’t Feel Well: Must be Depressed

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Depression is a major cause of most of the health issues in the world. Although doctors treat it with medication, the actual remedy may lie elsewhere -- change in the faulty lifestyle. In this article, several tips are offered for managing depression.

The Depressed World

According to the World Health Organization, depression is the fourth leading cause of diseases in the world; in next twenty years it is expected to occupy the second place. The United States and the high income nations spend billions on depression related diseases and that expenditure is only expected to increase with time.

Many things are generally put under the umbrella of depression – stress and anxieties, sadness, feelings of helplessness and disinterest, insomnia and sleep troubles, constant fatigue and perennial low vitality, and so on. Stated simply, the person does not feel good and although it does not disable him, but it interferes in his ability to function normally. In one form of extreme case, it leads to wild mood swings and is labeled “Bipolar disorder”. There can be many other labels depending upon how you describe your situation. But labels are just labels – not solutions.

In United States, antidepressants are prescribed more frequently than drugs for blood pressure, high cholesterol, asthma, or even headaches. Needless to say, most people struggle with their symptoms for considerable length of time before visiting doctors. Hence, the actual prevalence of depression is likely to be much more.

Is Depression a Disease?

James S Gordon, the Founder Director of the non-profit Center for Mind-Body Medicine (CMBM) in Washington, DC, believes that depression is not a disease, but a sign that one's life is out of balance, or "stuck". He asserts that the biological changes associated with depression are varied and result from the negative feelings such as helplessness or hopelessness, rather than causing it. So the treatment should be directed towards these feelings, and not the biochemicals resulting from them. He strongly feels that the antidepressants are significantly over-prescribed, though well-intentioned.

The current medical reimbursement system also encourages short patient visits, so doctors have little time to spend with patients and the quick option of prescribing drugs. This has ballooned the use of antidepressants.

According to Dr Ronald Dworkin, a senior fellow at Washington’s Hudson Institute, “Doctors are now medicating unhappiness and too many people take drugs when they really need to be making changes in their lives”. He is also the author of “Artificial Unhappiness: The Dark Side of the New Happy Class.”

A Commonsense Solution to Handle Depression

Once you accept that depression is merely an indication that something needs change in your lifestyle, you can begin to think of possible solutions to reduce your unhappiness. How about the following do-it-yourself approach:

(1) Spot the imbalances in your life

There has to be some tangible reason why you are unhappy or depressed: may be it is the job, divorce, financial hardships, sudden loss of someone or wealth, or something else. Take a good look at your life and spot the irritants and work out plans to remove them. If you have been struggling with depression or stress for a long time and are finding it difficult to manage yourself, consider it a good time to seek professional counsel. Never settle for a quick prescription after a five minute consultation with your physician. Also seriously consider altering your lifestyle or reducing its pace; after all there is more to life than merely its speed.

(2) Make yourself stronger and healthier

There are various ways to look after your wellbeing and get stronger:

Food: Some items such as alcohol, caffeine, sugar and fast food actually reduce your tolerance to stress and worries. Their pleasures are only momentary, and are harmful in the long run. Avoid them and go for food rich in vitamins such as B, C and E and in minerals like zinc, manganese and selenium, which give you more resilience towards stress and anxieties. You can find them in colored vegetables and fruits.

Exercise: Physical activity has become crucial in today’s sedentary lifestyle revolving around computers and laptops. For a large number of people, there is hardly any physical activity in their daily routine. Physical activity is crucial for overall health because it releases endorphins, which are the brain's feel good neurotransmitters that promote a sense of general wellbeing and help forget worries for awhile. You don’t have to join a gym or expensive workout classes. You can try brisk walk around the neighborhood or include walking as part of commuting to work. Regular dose of endorphins will steadily build up your strength and confidence level.

Meditate and/or pray: Meditation is good for your emotional health and if you are a religious individual pray sincerely and regularly. If done honestly, both help you understand your emotional health better and spot weaknesses. For meditation you don’t have to be a religious person – Vipassana meditation, for instance, trains you in the art of self exploration through your breathing and bodily sensations. A positive mind developed through meditation will further enhance your sense of wellbeing.

You may also like to read this interesting article: 4 Simple Ways to Keep Your Brain Healthy

(3) Learn to relax

Yoga and Deep breathing: Learn to relax through any technique such as yoga or deep breathing. Yoga postures are ideal because they help you relax both physically and mentally. The feeling of relaxation is a great rejuvenator. A simple Tip: If you can’t find any guidance, just slow down your breathing and make it deeper. Normally you breath 12 – 20 times a minute, slow down to 6 – 10 breaths. Breath slowly, hold for about the same length and then breath out slowly for the same duration. It will not only reduce the high blood pressure but also calms down the nervous system if you are anxious.

Practice mindfulness: Doing any activity with mindfulness offers good relaxation. For instance, while walking notice the movement of your legs, arms, and the breathing. Notice very carefully how you take every step, be attentive to traffic or people around you. Notice as many things as possible without any mental analysis. In fact, you can practice mindfulness doing any activity: cooking, eating, doing dishes, talking, and so on. Ideally you would want to be mindful all the time. It significantly reduces useless or negative thinking. You may like to read: How to Learn Mindfulness Effectively.

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author avatar Mark Gordon Brown
11th Dec 2010 (#)

more sunlight helps me.
eating less meat is also helping, and of course having pets too!

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author avatar Goodpal
12th Dec 2010 (#)

Thanks mark. I too share your views. Sitting in sunlight, playing with kids or pets or merely watching them in their acts, is always a refreshing experience.

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author avatar Austee
11th Dec 2010 (#)

Thanks for sharing. Since my dad's death, I am always depressed. This could help me a lot.

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author avatar Goodpal
12th Dec 2010 (#)

I can really understand your hurt when you lost your dad suddenly. But it helps to use such harsh realities of life in becoming tougher. Let me narrate a part of my tragic tale:

Over a decade ago, I suddenly lost everything including marriage and all savings. I was furious and mad with rage at people who caused it. Soon I was buried under deep depression and highly painful and debilitating asthma. Mentally I was absolutely shattered. That was not all -- I had no money, no job and not even a shelter. Some friends supported me but they also finally gave up looking at my hopeless condition.

Fortunately, I found shelter in a meditation center. Here I learned the importance of mind and power in life. I mentally resolved that no matter what I would not even think about any medical help for asthma or any other pain. And buried myself into the routine of meditating and serving and helping other practitioners, almost round the clock. Sipping hot water was my only medication and source of support against asthmatic suffocation. To keep away from depressive thoughts, I just kept busy working -- so busy that I had no time to worry about anything.

Today I am almost out of asthma as well as depression without any medical support. And mentally now I feel much stronger than ever in my whole life, despite the fact I am still not financially very stable.

The point of sharing all this is: We have a lot of hidden potential in us, only if we resolve to tap it honestly.

I am sure you too will wash away all the sadness after losing your dad.

Thanks for sharing.

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author avatar Austee
12th Dec 2010 (#)

Thanks for that inspiring story of yours. It's been 4 years. I am ok now but at some instances I still cry. Your advise will help me a lot.

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author avatar Goodpal
14th Dec 2010 (#)

Crying is very therapeutic and also helps in forgiving people whom we blame for our hardships. But try not to cry in public or around strangers; I preferred when no one was around me.

I would surrender (honestly) before a higher power or to own positive self (because I don't believe in any god who will come to save me or solve my problems) and simply let go -- and accept whatever comes out: through tremors, tears, choking voice, helplessness, or whatever. I could never forgive anyone through thinking but this honest surrender made my task really easier.

Another thing that gave me strength was serving and helping people, again with humility and not with ego (ego will be there but keep it under mindful watch). Someone once advised me: If you can't help yourself; help others. I never really understood it then, but did follow it.

And now I know that it works; By helping anyone, (in reality) I am only helping myself.

Isn't it a great way to be selfish !!

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author avatar Austee
14th Dec 2010 (#)

lol....
Thanks. I remember when its still fresh. I really cried in public. Good thing I am with my friends.

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author avatar Denise O
11th Dec 2010 (#)

If you are just writing about, depression, I agree with your advice.
But, there are all kinds of different depressive mental disorders.
My brother is classified as psychotic manic depressive.
Yoga would help him with losing weight and to a point his lows he does go through but, sorry.
I have witnessed my brother not being on the medication he takes and it is not a pretty scene, before and after we finally got him help.
I wish these things could help him, I really do. I practice some of these things, as it does help me when I am feeling down because, my CMP is flared.
By the way, before my brother was DX'd back in 1996, he showed the exact psychotic behavior as he did,
when he came back home, after a extended vacation with family 2000 miles away us and he didn't take his meds.
After being on meds for 7 years.
He was not worse than before he was DX'd he was exactly the same.
After 1 month of him back with us, on his meds, seeing his psychiatrist and going to his school, we finally got him back.
So there are truely people that need help with medication.
The sad thing is, he went 36 years without being DX'd...he now has a functional and happy life.
Thank you for sharing.:)

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author avatar Goodpal
12th Dec 2010 (#)

Thanks Denise for raising the issue of medication and medical care. Sure there are cases where professional help is the only commonsense approach. The article is mainly concerned with general cases of stress and depression.

I appreciate your sharing about your brother.

I would like to share that if you can learn the art of sharing "loving kindness" you can help your brother or anyone face any type of suffering. It is the closing part of Vipassana Meditation. Quantum mechanics says that we all live in a continuum of subtle vibrations; feelings of kindness and goodwill travel through this continuum and can benefit other people.

I greatly appreciated your comments. Thanks.

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author avatar hieroglyph
12th Dec 2010 (#)

Injects positive inputs! Really good!

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author avatar Goodpal
14th Dec 2010 (#)

Thanks hieroglyph for contributing positive vibrations to this article.

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author avatar Denise O
14th Dec 2010 (#)

Goodpal, I was not busting your chops, if this article was about just depression, as I stated in my comments the other day.
I use a lot of techniques you have mentioned for my physical ailment, that hits me mentally at times.
I thought your tips were great for those that are just depressed.
My brother yes, is a extreme case, he is also a epileptic and mentally challenged from birth.
He has wonderful care and he has, since he came to live with us, so many years ago. He goes to a day school.
He has more than just drugs to help him.
Like I said, great article on those that are depressed.
Congrats on the star page, it is well deserved... oops, I forgot to add it to my last comment.
Thank you for sharing and responding back.:)

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author avatar Goodpal
14th Dec 2010 (#)

I truly wish freedom from pain and ailments to both of you and your families, Denise. Take care.

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author avatar Denise O
3rd Mar 2011 (#)

Thank you goodpal. You are so full of great knowledge on the human mind and I am so glad you're here to share them with us. As always, thank you for, being you.:)

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author avatar Goodpal
21st May 2011 (#)

Thanks for the kind words, Denise. We are all full of virtues and wonderful qualities. But somehow the current materialistic society and lifestyle does no allow us manifest them.

I am also a struggler and actually facing the issues I write about. So, what I suggest to others are, in fact, more directed towards my own self.

Thanks for helping me through sharing.

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author avatar Retired
25th May 2011 (#)

You have some very valid points, however I also agree with some of the other posters that natural therapy such as meditation/mindfulness etc; do not help with people that have a psychiatric disorder.
As I have written in a previous article it does help to have both meds & therapy depending on the diagnosis at hand. Yes I understand for general depression & 'situational depression' - your points are valid. Anyone who is suffering from severe depression should seek medical help from their GP or contact a 24hr crisis helpline...

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author avatar Goodpal
25th May 2011 (#)

I am in full agreement with you, Marie-Anne.

We have to decide if the situation demand professional help. Meditation/mindfulness in general is not prescribed as treatment for serious disorders. It is also true that not all people can meditate or learn mindfulness properly on their own or just through reading or listening instructions. A good experienced coach is preferred who can also recommend professional help if needed.

I really appreciated your thoughtful comment. Do read my articles on other topics, if they interest you.

Wish you a wonderful day!

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