Develop Positive Parenting, Avoid Violence

bron bron By bron bron, 17th Nov 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/1z99mbgf/
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It is the duty of a family to build and shape the personality and mental health of a child. In the midst of a family, a child entitled to their rights in order to grow, develop and participate optimally in accordance with the dignity of humanity, and get protection from abuse, neglect, physical atrocities and discrimination.

Develop Positive Parenting, Avoid Violence

It is the duty of a family to build and shape the personality and mental health of a child. In the midst of a family, a child entitled to their rights in order to grow, develop and participate optimally in accordance with the dignity of humanity, and get protection from abuse, neglect, physical atrocities and discrimination.

Need special attention that the task of caring for and raising children is a mandate from God. Not the least we are entitled to treat our baby with a painful act of physical, mental and intimidation. Parenting requires physical preparation, mental and emotional well from both parents, families and communities and the environment.

Just the atmosphere of affection, the care of a child can be done with sincerity and full of favors to be parents. Many families are so longed for the presence of a child who decorate their households, but why are we who have been blessed with children are not nurtured with love and affection.

It should provide a comfortable and safe environment for the physical and mental growth of a child from the body and grow. It is not just the responsibility of a family and even the community, the government and state. Child protection rights guaranteed in the legislation. Although not easy being a parent, but prepare ourselves since formed a new family and realize that duties and responsibilities as parents is to nurture, nourish and educate and protect children. Encourage the development of skills talents and abilities.

There are three important in meeting the basic needs of children during the developmental period, that Foster, Asih and Sharpening.

Foster: includes meeting the needs of healthy and nutritious food, health, hygiene, clothing, shelter, good environment.

Asih: includes emotional needs, affection. Especially in the first years of a child's life. Close relationships, intimate and harmony is a necessary condition to ensure optimal growth and development, both mental, social and psychological child later as adults. Violence against children, whether in the form of physical abuse such as beating, wounding, pinching, and even violence in speech and lack of compassion will give a negative impact on growth and development. Children will experience the feeling insecure, depressed and emotional mental imbalance occurs when mature. There is no immediate cure for the acts of violence or child abuse. Record child's memory will store all negative behaviors a parent or family member who has committed child abuse is. Should act to educate children not to use other ways such.

Sharpening: This teaser is a need for positive mental stimulation. Stimulation or positive mental stimulation is beginning the process of learning children in the family. If we have incorrectly applied this pattern Sharpening the mental development of the child will have difficulty in relationships in the community. Stimulation terhedap mental development will help the child learn self-reliance, creativity, intelligence, personality, religion / faith, morals and manners / etiquette in the mix. productivity, and further psychological or mental health of a child will grow up That's three basic needs of raising a child in a family that should be noticed by parents.

Here's an example of implementing positive parenting child's age:

Positive parenting for children aged 1-2 years: reading stories or fairy tales, teach the name of the body, playing with children, develop the ability to speak and use language that is polite, pray, pray, meet and greet people say thank you, as well as a few sentences positive short short.

Positive Parenting 2-3 years: Spending time together to read to children, pray, encourage children to play the role, encouraging group play to socialize, meet with their surroundings and the way to know nature, simple singing children.

Positive Parenting aged 3-5 years: Keep continue the habit of storytelling and reading books, praying together, visit the bookstore together, introduce a simple musical instrument and provides the opportunity to play and give praise, developed the concept for daring to join in group play and sharing of property as pie or candy. Teach children to use complete sentences to convey something. Help your child to use proper sentence and give praise when it managed to achieve something positive. Parents should also learn to be consistent in teaching discipline. State clearly and lovingly about the behavior of the model which we want to develop in children.

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