Why Do Men Hate Using Condoms?

soraya452 By soraya452, 11th Jun 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
Posted in Wikinut>Health>General Health>Sexual Health & STDs

This is an issue that affects a lot of people. I want to understand why.

It can't be that bad, can it?

Not all men hate them but most of the them do and as a woman I just don’t understand why. Surely nobody would want to run the risk of an unplanned pregnancy or the risk of catching a sexually transmitted infection.

I feel I have no choice but to use them because there are the only thing that protects against STD’s. I have used other forms of contraception in the passed but it didn’t agree with me. So I have told my boyfriend that I was coming off the pill and that we would have to use condoms from now on. He seemed fine with it at first, but know he won’t stop moaning about how much he hates them and I think he will refuse to wear them soon.

The excuses that I have heard is, there too tight and it doesn’t feel the same. I understand about the too tight situation, but them why not get some bigger ones. They come in all different shapes and sizes after all. ‘It ruin’s sex’, yea well so does a screaming baby.

This is something I can not understand no matter how hard I try, and they can’t understand why I don’t like other forms of birth control, sometimes it feels like we’re both from different planets and its driving me crazy. 

Seriously guys, are they really that bad? Is this something that as a woman just don’t understand? I don’t think asking a guy to wear a condom is asking for a lot.


Condoms, Intercourse, Relationships, Sex, Sexual Health, Sexually Transmitted Diseases

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author avatar Jerry Walch
11th Jun 2012 (#)

I really have no comment on this issue, dear heart, because it's not something I have ever given much thought to. They were just something I started using when I was fifteen years old, except with my first wife when she decided she wanted a child.

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author avatar Retired
12th Jun 2012 (#)

I have to say that I also found using rubbers to be a real turn-off when it came to sex. I would have happily taken a pill, had such a thing been available for men, but I too hated the rubbers.

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